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Hello . Happy Easter. Hope you had a fab weekend. So today I'll be addressing this issue on why some single women prefer to date married men. In August 2015, over 32 million names of married men was leaked on Ashley Madison, a dating site for married men. Of course, they cheat secretly here, their identity is hidden. This event had me thinking if all men generally just want to cheat or there is another theory that sort of explains this. However, anyone can stay regardless of your gender or sexual orientation. But is there something about a man with a wedding ring that makes him more attractive, desirable, skater, funnier or even nicer? Or is it just our imagination or orientation? Well, I took my time yo examine this issue and I came up with some reasons why women prefer married men. The reasons are summed up in SECURITY. -COMMITTMENT    Every woman wants a man who is willing and able to commit themselves to the relationship. This is guaranteed by the example of their marr...

Hello everyone, trust your day was good. This post is just 'one of those posts'. I asked a couple of friends for their worst experience and I got quite hilarious responses. Mine is not here tho... Adeseun- My worst experience would be the day a random guy called me a bastard. It was in church. I came in and sat down, then I realised they had started sharing cards, so I went to get mine. When I got back, someone was already on my seat. I approached him with humility, "Chairman, Abeg na my seat be this" and he was like "what do you want me to do?". So, I just left him and sat behind him. He later wanted to explain, but I shunned him. Then immediately, he called me a bastard. I was mad, I wanted to beat him, I wanted to fight. But I told him something, 'We are in church and I will come back for you'. After church ended, I went to his room, I told him to come out so we could fight. His roommates hid him, then I realised he was even smaller than me...

    Is flirting cheating? Or better still, would you equate flirting to cheating? Well, I got the opinion of a few persons on this. But first, what is cheating? What is flirting? Well, cheating is when one person has a significant other and performs any type of intimate acts- Urban Dictionary. According to Wikipedia, flirting is a social and sometimes sexual activity involving verbal or written communication as well as body language by one person to another, suggesting an interest in a deeper relationship with the other person. According to me, cheating is seeing someone else when you are already in a relationship. And flirting? Well, I really don't know how to define it but I'll say it is making someone like you or even love, if care is not taken. So, is flirting really cheating? No, I don't think so. Cheating is more like a physical activity..,or literally dating someone else. If flirting was cheating, then everyone in a relationship has cheated at some point o...

Hello. Its been a while I posted here and I wanted to write on something quite interesting and argumentative. The issue on making out is such a big one to most teenagers and young adults as most people consider it a sin especially the Christian folks. So, is making out really a sin? I spoke to three ladies about it and here are their opinions: Oore; Well, I just hope the two people involved can control each other. It is advised not to go too far because one most times go beyond 'making out' to the actual sex. The sin the Bible says is fornication and adultery because of the contact points and the intercourse. And this is what God does not want except you have it with one you are married to. So, I think making out is not a sin BUT do not quote me. Check your motives and the thought that follow after the making out session and think about yourself and your future before you make out with anybody, just anybody. Evi; I don't think it is a sin personally, just tha...

Hi! Happy new year,  better late then never. I pray God empowers you to achieve that which you have set before Him who can do all things. And I hope you have goals for the month and most importantly,  for the year. Goals are important, they guide us towards our dreams. Start your day right, with God. Pray and ask for His direction everyday. New day, new opportunities.  Don't let an opportunity pass you by. Opportunity,  they say, comes but once. My blog will be very active this year, there are a lot of things I really can't wait to share with you all. Stay blessed this new year and try as much as possible to stay away from  trouble. Love, X!

I feign ignorance, put up a face you'd believe could never do wrong Do you know me? Barely a score I've been touched and felt in places unknown And yes, I've always wanted more I take substances to elevate my mood, to kill the pain, to relax, to unwind I write depressing poems to fill to the void Only to empty my heart right again I have been to places I should not be caught dead in I tell lies to get out of situations, don't we all? I have played with hearts, toyed with emotions Don't get me wrong, I'm changing I've lived my youth to the full I've had a jolly good time of my life The drugs, the weed, the boys Been there, done that Now do you know me? Nope, not well enough Beneath the surface lies a heart writhing in pain Both emotional and physical Beneath my skin, flowing through my veins runs the devil's blood-black blood I might be fuelled by hate, anger, pain Yet I feel love and happiness on good days Don't judge me by ...

The David Oyedepo Day of Service (DODOS), an initiative of students of Covenant University, is slated to hold between September 21st and 27th 2015. The DODOS foundation is an avenue to impact lives and serve humanity. This year's edition promises to be fun and life-impacting. You can join projects or introduce your own project. Click  here  for more information on the David Oyedepo Day of Service.