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Why Girls have Boyfriends

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Interesting topic we have here
So a few days ago, I was talking with a friend of mine and there and then, I came up with a list of why girls have boyfriends. I believe people have different reasons for being in relationships, especially the ladies. These reasons vary from one person to another and from one relationship to another.


Here are the 5 reasons I believe Ladies go into a relationship:

Status

Some girls just somehow love the status of 'girlfriend' and do not even care who the boyfriend is. I mean they do not take all the 'necessary' into consideration. Such girls are always excited to say, 'I also have a boyfriend!' and are mostly the 'desperados' or girls who have been single for a very long time.

Money

Its no longer news that some girls go into a relationship because of what the guy has to offer. They are basically after the money that this guy has and refer to themselves as 'high maintenance babes'. In other words, if you don't have the money, don't even look at them if you don't want to be bankrupt.

Sex

We live in a world where sex is the order of the day in every relationship. This however does not apply to every relationship. Some girls actually date guys just for the 'gives', nothing more. No love, no affection, no 'mushiness' whatsoever. Such girls are known to prefer well built men who they believe are 'really good at it'.

Companionship

As odd as this may sound, it is the truth. Not all girls actually love the guy they are dating. Some are just in the relationship because the guy likes them a lot and they seem to enjoy all the attention they are getting from the guy. This kind of girls are the girls I'd like to call, 'rub my head' girls. This means that they are only in the relationship for the guys affection and attention. They are very mushy and are always emotional. They are most times always crying. They also expect the guy to be by their bedside and rub their tummy at that time of the month, and talk them through the pain.

All the right reasons

This is by far the most important reason to be in a relationship but sadly, just a few girls fall into this category. A relationship should be defined  and both parties should aim at helping each other grow and develop on every sphere. This kind of girls date a guy for all the right reasons (and a few bad ones, lol). They are in the relationship for all its what and they are ready to give everything it takes to make it work. Such girls capture all the above in their relationship.

My Ladies, which are you?
Fellas, which are you dating or which would you prefer?
Do leave a comment below! Have a blessed night!
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  1. thatpaulinus24 February 2017 at 11:34

    Hi Ms. Ojenike I think your article is written from a correctional standpoint, it's a good piece trust me but it should cover other great reasons of going into a relationship, like the sapiosexuls who think they need relationship because the other is their better half.

    my question is if you (Tobi) were/is (to) be in a relationship what will be your reason for dating.

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