The Joy of Motherhood

Hello beautiful people. Trust you're doing good. It's mother's day and I just thought of sharing something here. I am not a mother yet but from my observations about the world around me, there's nothing as fulfilling as the joy of motherhood.
Every girl in her own special way is a mother, even if she practically doesn't have a baby yet. A mother looks out for her own, protects and shields. I personally think mothers should be the next authority after God and Jesus.
Mothers are nation builders. The Female Presidential aspirant, Professor Oluremi Sonaiya recently came to my school to honour an invite to a public lecture. From the little speech she gave, I could decipher the agony of a mother at her indisposed child (Nigeria literally), the need to effect change in our society and the need to be super active as youths. She didn't speak about her ambition or political intention(I loved that about her).
Okay, I'm not talking politics here but the need to appreciate women in our society be it our mothers, aunts, female cousins, nieces, mothers and sisters-in-law...the list goes on and on.
Happy Mothers' Day

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