Making Lasting Impressions

How to make lasting impressions has become an issue for most people, especially at the first meeting(s). A lasting impression comes not by the virtue of what you do or what you're wearing. It comes from your poise, inward appearance, and of course, outward appearance. So everything you do must be channeled in this path.

The first thing you should note is that your dress speaks a lot about you even if you don't represent it inwardly. I mean, someone who dresses shabbily to an interview will not be considered a good prospect for the job. Even if the job has nothing to do with your outward appearance (Engineers in the house...).So, making a lasting impression comes first from your outward appearance. Nobody will want to know the real you if your outward look does not fascinate them.

Secondly, good hygiene is very very important. Brush and floss your teeth, ensure your body is clean, wear nice perfumes and body sprays and above all, wear clean clothes. Remember, cleanliness is next to godliness.

And to wrap it up, compose yourself! Don't commit grammatical blunders! It's better to keep mute than say what is not (don't quote me tho). Don't be so jittery to the extent that you forget what you want to say...just calm down! If you feel your nervousness is taking over, excuse yourself. Go to the restroom and probably wash your face (Ladies, please don't try this if you are wearing makeup).

First impressions are important. It is also necessary to make sure it lasts. Don't overdo anything, just be yourself and things will turn out well.

Have a beautiful day ahead!

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